Trusting Yourself Instead of Others

Something that came to me this morning as I am strengthening my intuition was I get really mad when I trust other people for information and then it ends up not feeling right in MY experience of their recommendations. Example: I ask what is the best restaurant around here for (insert type of food) and you are given a recommendation from an individual or you look it up online. Now, if you do it from a source where many people can weigh in (like yelp) that offers a higher probability the information will be accurate. However, if I make a choice based on a source of information outside myself and it doesn’t feel good in MY experience then it leaves me feeling irritated, stupid, or mad for trusting that person’s opinion. How can I trust myself and get answers to the questions without ever having to go to an outside source? You are the Source! Using your intuition scientifically and methodically you can ask the same questions to source (which you are a part of) for the information and answers you seek. That being said it’s not a full-proof system right out of the box. Why? Because using your intuition has to be developed and most people have let their intuitive muscle decay and atrophy throughout their entire life. Anything that is not growing is dying. So before you can use it in a way that you can trust and is practical and functional in daily living you have to strengthen the muscle just as if you were to go to a gym and strengthen the muscles in your body. This process can feel frustrating enough to quit many times. You don’t just walk into the gym and walk out after one or even many visits with the desired results. Many people go to the gym with the best of intentions and even get started but don’t stay with it. It takes a lot of strength conditioning and many visits to the gym before you have developed the habits and patterns that display the results you desire. Yes, you see gradual changes but you don’t jump from where you are to the desired results instantaneously. I’m not saying it’s not possible. I don’t know anyone that has figured that out yet. If you have, I want you to contact me through my website immediately so I can learn from you the method of how to achieve this. Until then, it takes time to learn. The same goes with intuition, with anything for that matter. Once you know how to use your intuition well and it’s stronger than the processes you have relied on in the past you can eliminate the inconsistencies of differences between other people’s experiences and what is a match for you. This will save you ample amounts of time, effort, and energy doing things that only tell you that experience was what you didn’t want instead of having the experience you do want.